FAQs
MyIslamicSpouse is a compatibility-based platform designed to help Muslims understand how aligned they are with others across important areas such as values, mindset, communication, and relationship expectations.
Rather than encouraging superficial matching, the platform focuses on thoughtful self-reflection and meaningful comparison, rooted in respect, intention, and Islamic values.
No.
MyIslamicSpouse is not a swipe-based dating app and does not promote casual dating.
It is a compatibility and mindset alignment tool that can be used by:
- Individuals exploring marriage seriously
- Married couples seeking better understanding
- Friends or family members comparing perspectives
- Two people who want to understand compatibility before moving forward
How you use the results is entirely up to you.
Users answer a structured questionnaire covering multiple categories (such as values, communication, lifestyle, and expectations).
Compatibility is calculated by:
- Comparing how close or far apart two users’ answers are
- Normalizing scores fairly across different question types
- Producing both overall compatibility and category-specific insights
The score reflects similarity of mindset, not “right or wrong” answers.
MyIslamicSpouse is designed to support Islamic etiquette and intention, not replace Islamic guidance.
The platform:
- Encourages seriousness and reflection
- Avoids addictive or exploitative mechanics
- Emphasizes privacy, respect, and accountability
Ultimately, users are responsible for using the platform in a way that aligns with their values and faith.
MyIslamicSpouse is for:
- Muslims aged 18 and over
- Single or married individuals
- Men and women
- People seeking self-awareness, clarity, and alignment in relationships
The platform is inclusive of different backgrounds and cultures, while remaining grounded in Islamic ethics.
No.
Compatibility scores are guidance tools, not guarantees.
A high score indicates stronger alignment in certain areas, while a lower score highlights differences that may require communication or understanding.
Marriage and relationships involve character, intention, effort, and guidance from Allah — the platform simply helps you see alignment more clearly.
No.
MyIslamicSpouse is a tool, not a decision-maker.
Islam encourages:
- Prayer (including istikhara)
- Consultation with family and trusted people
- Thoughtful consideration
The platform supports clarity — it does not replace Islamic processes.
Yes.
Married couples can use the platform to:
- Better understand differences
- Identify strengths
- Improve communication and alignment
Compatibility tools are not limited to pre-marriage use.
MyIslamicSpouse is different because it:
- Prioritizes values over appearances
- Focuses on mindset compatibility
- Avoids swipe culture
- Respects Islamic sensibilities
- Encourages intentional use, not endless browsing
It’s built for people who want clarity, not noise.
Messaging is available only between connected users and is designed to support respectful, purposeful communication.
Features are intentionally limited to discourage misuse and promote meaningful interaction.
Yes.
We take privacy seriously and:
- Do not sell user data
- Allow users to delete their accounts at any time
- Limit what is visible to others
- Use secure systems to protect user information
Personal information is only used to operate and improve the service.
Yes.
Users can manage:
- Profile visibility
- Friend requests
- Whether others can view compatibility results
More privacy controls will continue to be added over time.
Yes.
You can permanently delete your account at any time through your settings.
Once deleted, your data is removed in accordance with our data policies.
Yes, MyIslamicSpouse currently offers free access to core features.
Optional premium features may be introduced in the future, but the platform’s purpose will remain aligned with accessibility and fairness.
We welcome feedback.
You can contact us through the Contact Us section in the app or website and select “Questionnaire Suggestions” or “General Feedback”.
Community input helps shape the platform.