Compatability Questions Compatability Questions Assalamu alaikum. – Please read the instructions 1. Read the questions carefully 2. Answer honestly, so you are matched with exactly someone you share similar values to 3. Complete the whole questionnaire, you’ll only have to do it once Email * RELIGIOUS VALUES How important is cultural values to you? * –Very importantIn the middleNot important at all What is your opinion on celebrating mowlid (birthday of prophet Muhammad pbuh)? * –Very importantIn the middleNot allowed I read Qur’aan * –DailyCouple times a weekCouple times a monthCouple times a yearNever My level of Qur’aan recitation is * –Very poorBelow averageAverageAbove averageExcellent How many surahs in the Qur’aan I can recite “in memory” * –NoneA few small surahsA few JuzzMore than half the Qur'aanThe whole Qur'aan I study and listen to Islamic lectures * –DailyCouple times a weekCouple times a monthCouple times a yearNever I pray ALL my salah * –AlwaysOftenSometimesRarelyNever I pray ALL my salah on time * –AlwaysOftenSometimesRarelyNever I wake up for night prayers * –EverydayCouple of times a weekCouple of times a monthOnce in a blue moonNever I fast Mondays and Thursdays (sunnah fasts) * –AlwaysOftenSometimesRarelyNever My level of religious practice is * –Very religiousSomewhat religiousIn the middleNot that religiousI'm not religious at all My opinion on music is * –Nothing wrong with itDepends if it's Islamic or notDepends if it uses foul language or notDepends on the situationNot allowed at all APPEARANCE A man should .. * –Have a fully grown beardHave a shaped up beardBe full shaved A woman should dress in .. * –Jilbaab and niqaabModest clothing and hijaabWhatever she feels comfortable in How important is physical attraction for a husband towards his wife * –Very importantNeither important/unimportantNot important at all How important is physical attraction for a wife towards her husband * –Very importantNeither important/un-importantNot important at all My opinion on wearing “make up” is * –Allowed anytime anywhereAllowed only in situations like weddingsOnly for my husbandNot something I prefer or encourageNot allowed at all What is your opinion on Islamic fashion? (hijaabs and jilbaabs) * –Strongly agreeNeutralStrongly disagree Physical disability * –NoneMinor disabilitySerious disability Health complications * –NoneMinor health issues (temporary)Minor health issues (long-term)Major health issues (temporary)Major health issues (long-term) How often do you workout/keep fit? * –EverydayA couple of times a weekA couple of times a monthOnce in a whileNever FINANCES How important is it for the husband to be the main provider in the home? * –Very importantNeither important/un-importantNot important at all What should be a wife’s source of income? * –A jobHer familyRegular allowance from her husbandAsk husband when she needs something How important is it for a wife to work? * –Very importantNeither important/un-importantNot important at all How good are you at managing money * –ExcellentGoodIn the middleBadVery bad How often do you like to travel for leisure? * –Often – Few times a yearSometimes – One or twice a yearRarely – Once every few years How often do you buy take out food? * –Often – Few times a weekSometimes – Once or twice a monthRarely – Once or twice a year My type of wedding/nikah * –Just a simple nikahNikah with a moderate wedding ceremonyA big nikah and a big wedding ceremony Mahar (dowry) I want/I can afford is * –Less than £1000£1000 to £10,000More than £10,000 My opinion on mortgage is.. * –Okay in this day and age we live inOkay if we need a place to live inNot okay at all CORE VALUES How important is it to have a man lead in the family? * –Very importantSomewhat importantNot important at all Can a man be on social media? * –Yes, he canYes, only if he's doing da'wah in IslamNo, social media is bad Can a woman be on social media? * –Yes, she canYes, only if she's doing da'wah in IslamNo, social media is bad A wifes’ physical beauty should only be for her husband * –AgreeNeutralDisagree Husband and wife should do equal amount of chores in the house * –AgreeNeutralDisagree A wife’s main role is to.. * –Take care of the homeGo to workTake care of the home and go to work A husband’s main role is.. * –Take care of the homeGo to workTake care of the home and go to work Can men and women be friends? * –YesDependsNo My opinion on women travelling alone * –Nothing wrong with itDepends on the circumstancesNot allowed My opinion on mixing/socializing with family relatives of the opposite sex * –Nothing wrong with itDisocuraged and only interact when neccesarryNot allowed Topics about my past * –I am open to talk about my pastI'm open to it but rather notI don't want to talk about the past How long I need to get to know someone before marriage is.. * –About a monthAbout 3 monthsAbout 6 monthsAbout a yearTwo years or more PERSONALITY I am generally quite and reserved * –AgreeNeutralDisagree I am generally very social and outgoing * –AgreeNeutralDisagree A husband should be more of an .. * –IntrovertExtrovert A wife should be more of an .. * –IntrovertExtrovert When it comes to friends/close friends, I have * –A lotA fewOne or two My level of patience/tolerance is * –Very highQuite highQuite lowVery low My level of humor is * –Very highQuite highQuite lowVery low What should a husband do if he wants to marry a second wife? He.. * –Should ask permission from his first wifeCan do so as long as he's fair to bothDoesn't have the right to marry a second wifeShould divorce the first wife What should a wife do if her husband wants to marry a second wife? She should.. * –Allow him as long as he's fairTry and convince not toGive him a choice either her or the second wifeDivorce him FAMILY I’d like to have kids * –As soon as possibleAfter a year of marriageAfter two yearsI don't want kidsI can't have kids How many children do you hope to have? * –None1 – 34 or more What is your opinion on homeschooling children? * –AgreeIn the middleDisagree How do you plan to live after marriage? * –With in-lawsWithout in-lawsOpen to both What’s your opinion to relocate/move countries? * –No, I can't moveYes but within the countryYes I don't mind anywhereYes only to an Islamic country My relationship with my father is.. * –Very goodCan be betterNot good My relationship with my mother is.. * –Very goodCan be betterNot good Wali/guardian should be involved * –From the start of the interactionWhen we feel like we are readyWhen we are ready for marriage LIFESTYLE A wife should know how to cook * –AgreeNeutralDisagree A husband should know how to cook * –AgreeNeutralDisagree My ideal romantic date is * –A dinner dateSome type of activity/gameQuality time at homeShopping/vacationGoing to the park How important is a university degree for a man * –Very ImportantSomewhat ImportantNot at all Important How important is a university degree for a woman * –Very ImportantSomewhat ImportantNot at all Important How important do you think a man’s income is? * –Very importantNeutralNot important at all How important is career ambitions and goals in a man? * –Very importantNeutralNot important at all How important is career ambitions and goals in a woman? * –Very importantNeutralNot important at all How often do you need alone time or personal space in a realtionship? * –EverydayCouple of times a weekCouple of times a monthCouple of times a yearNone How should a husband react when he’s angry with his wife * –Talk and try to make her understandWalk away until he's calmStay quiet How should a wife react to her husband when she’s angry * –Talk and try to make him understandWalk away until she's calmStay quite I’d like to celebrate birthday and anniversaries * –YesDon't mindNo Dropdown Option 1 If you are human, leave this field blank. 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