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9 ways to improve your marriage

9 way to improve your marriage 1. Be generous in your behaviour and ethics with your spouse It has been said, “Generosity and kindness cover the faults of this world and the hereafter”. So if you are generous, your generosity will cover all your faults and contribute to your success and the continuation of your marriage. Simple things such as being generous with your kind and affectionate words go a long way toward the happiness of your spouse. Please take it further by being generous with your actions and serving them. Another important thing to be gracious in a marriage is giving gifts to each other as much as possible like we were encouraged to do by our beloved Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h when he said  “Give presents to one another for this would increase your mutual love.”  2. Explore things together Experiences give life a different flavour. Try different types of food, and activities and visit various places with your spouse. Explore exotic places together like hiking in the mountains, swimming or spending time together camping. Such experiences strengthen the bond between you and add a different flavour to life, just as the Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h used to do sporting races with Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her.  3. Have fun Having fun reduces stress, gets rid of boredom, brings joy, dispels gloom and increases love. When the couple follows the “give & take” approach, this ruler will contribute to the longevity of the marriage. Being playful does not mean making fun of each other, but rather having fun with each other pleasantly and lovingly. This also means having respectful boundaries in some actions when in public with regards to being playful. Nevertheless, having fun with your spouse is an essential component of a successful marriage.  4. Express your feelings Express you love and longning, even it its through a message, a sticky note, a gift or even a love letter. Words of affection and emotions have a strong impact in how develop feelings with a person. So your spouse is a crucial individual in knowing and understanding your feelings towards them. Choose your words carefully when expressing yourself and use kind words such as “I miss you, I long for you, I yearn for you.”  5. Family relationship Oftentimes, the kindness of the spouse’s family can be a major reason for the continuation of the marriage despite many problems between spouses. When the parents and family members are of good character, kindness and understanding, sacrificing them can be very difficult. They also tend to want the best for both of you, therefore they contribute positively to the growth of your marriage.  6. Alone time  Relationships between any two people succeed when each of them respects the other’s privacy by giving them time on their own. Your spouse needs their own space and have the time to pursue their hobbies and goals. They also need specific times for relaxation, extracurricular activities or socialising with their friends. The more respect given to each person’s alone time and their own space, the longer the marriage will last and both spouses will feel happy. 7. Don’t exaggerate avoidance Exaggerating avoidance in a marriage can cause serious harm to the relationship. Learn to communicate and address your marital issues while maintaining the relationship without cutting off your spouse. There is a fine line between giving your own space and alone time and being avoided. You should also not use avoidance as a means to punish your spouse, unless in a very rare circumstance as mentioned in the Qur’an. 8. Sacrifice All relationships sometimes require sacrifices. Learn to wisely yield and sacrifice your needs over your spouses needs. In many cases where a small issue can be easily solved may require one of the spouses to yield so that the relationship can grow stronger. A wise partner will appreciate and acknowledge when their wife/husband sacrifices for their sake.  9. Preserving the Flavour Everyone is unique in their own way. We have different personalities and traits that make us who we are. In a marriage, you must be careful not to impose your personality on your spouse. Don’t try to impose certain things to change how they are and what makes them unique. Our differences is what add the flavour to our realtionships.   Blogs

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How to make a marriage successful

One of the successful qualities of successful partners is that they are friends first – they are comfortable with each other’s presence. People nowadays are really impatient. They need everything readily perfect. They can’t wait. They can’t compromise, and that’s bad for a successful relationship. You need to cultivate patience in yourself.  You need to be patient with your partner. You need to learn to love your partner’s flaws. Cultivate patience. Learn to love your partner’s flaws. If they are not patient or love your flaws, you’ve got to move on. A surprising and seemingly silly tip – Pray for your partner. It sounds odd but believes us, praying about someone brings out love and care you never expected. One of the many beauties of life is to enjoy. LIve life freely. Look cool but don’t be afraid to look silly.

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Why you should pray

Commitment is important in relationships, especially when it comes to being dedicated to your partner. But there are other ways besides spending money. Praying together can bring you closer and help build a strong relationship The most important aspect of the relationship between man and God is prayer. Like that, praying strengthens the relationship with your loved ones. Many people don’t know or neglect the importance of praying. It’s so important to pray every day. I think you should start praying right now! Prayer helps you notice your partner, remind yourself to consider their wellbeing. It has increased care and love in couples by making them more aware of each other’s needs as well as allowing time for prayerful consideration which brings a sense of peace amongst those who practice it regularly. Prayer helps the person keep the loved one in mind’, reminds them about the wellbeing of the partner. This leads people closer together spiritually through connecting both mindsets–body & soul! A prayer is a powerful tool that can be used to improve your relationship with your partner, but it’s also an opportunity for personal reflection and growth.  Start praying today and experience the benefits of prayer in your life and marriage.

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How to get matches on Nikaah Dating Website

You’re a Muslim single and you’re looking for someone who shares your faith. And now that it’s been a few weeks since you’ve been on Nikaah Dating Website, it seems like things are going downhill fast. All the good-looking people seem to be taken or they don’t meet your standards of what a “good” Muslim is supposed to be. But there is hope! There are plenty of other singles out there just waiting for someone great to come along and show them some love – so why not you? Here are five easy ways to get more matches on a Muslim dating app:  Write about one thing that makes you unique in your bio Make sure your profile is up to date Put your attractive photo on the profile. Use Near me feature to find your interests in your area. Be engaged in the website and get listed on featured members list Love is something everyone desires but not everyone gets the opportunity to experience it or know where to start when trying to get out there and date again after being single for so long. I hope this blog post helps with some advice on how Muslim singles can maintain their lifestyle choices while also finding someone special!

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